fairysharkmother

faetouchedinthehead asked:

As a suggestion for people who want to volunteer or do something helpful, and perhaps cuddle with a pet if they love animals, particularly if they aren't allowed to have their own - Many places, like the Petsmart I work at, have adoption centers with animals looking for homes (usually cats), and we always need volunteers who are willing to come in for an hour or two to let the cats out of their kennels and play with them, cuddle them, let them stretch their legs and get some love!

fairysharkmother answered:

That is one of the sweetest suggestions!

 Thank you!

fairysharkmother

Anonymous asked:

I found you guys in a tag and I wanted to come here to just vent, if that's okay? I haven't hurt myself in 770 days and lately I can't find a reason to not relapse. I think about it all the time, almost like I was still doing it, and I'm just so stressed out and I feel so shitty I don't know what else to do. I just needed to tell someone, I guess. Thank you.

fairysharkmother answered:

 You’re welcome, darling.

 Feel better.

fairysharkmother

Anonymous asked:

Hello Sea Family, I know that you have a lot of asks, and I really appreciate what you do. Today my sexuality has been outed at school, and I'm terrified, since people here are very much homophobic. I'm trying my hardest to keep my panic at bay, but it's kind of hard. Any advice?

fairysharkmother answered:

 This may feel terrible for you, but it could also be an opportunity. 

 Be brave and strong, my darling. Stick to your guns, and don’t back down if you get opposition. Research things on your sexuality. Know as much as you can in order to fight ignorance.

 Momma might be gentle, but that is because she chooses to be. She also has the teeth needed to protect you. Know your rights. If you feel like your safety is in jeopardy, don’t be afraid to call in the proper authorities. 

 Be strong, darling. Momma is here for you. Just because you’re scared doesn’t mean you aren’t brave. We’re proud of you.

fairysharkmother

Anonymous asked:

To the self harm anons: I have found that a good way to keep from cutting/burning my skin when the urge strikes is to have a pack of washable markers handy, and draw on your skin where you were planning on harming yourself. I usually self harm during panic attacks, and often fall asleep afterward. It always makes me proud to wake up with a clear head and see lovely drawings where I would normally be bleeding. Create art, not a scar.

fairysharkmother answered:

fairysharkmother
fairysharkmother:

Momma want to make sure you all stay safe and happy, so here are a list of things to do if you feel like you need to hurt yourself.
Scribble on people in magazines
Smile into a mirror
Create something- a drawing, a clay figure, write down what’s bothering you, anything- and destroy it.
Call a crisis help line. 
Befrienders.org is away to find helplines by country
Go to Blahtherapy.com
Hold an ice cube in your hand or your mouth
Rub ice on the place you used to cut
Clap hard
Snap a rubber band
Draw on yourself in marker
Blast music
Pop bubble wrap
Take a bath
Count to ten. Get louder with every number.
Braid something
Cry
…But there’s more!Here are some links:Teenhelp
Sirius Project
HelpGuide
YouthinBC
146 Things to Do
Need a distraction?Disney and Marvel Movies
Studio Ghibli Movies
MOVIES AND TV SHOWS
Remember; Momma would rather you safe and happy. Momma loves you. You are worth it. Everyone is.  Momma is so, so proud.

fairysharkmother:

Momma want to make sure you all stay safe and happy, so here are a list of things to do if you feel like you need to hurt yourself.

  • Scribble on people in magazines
  • Smile into a mirror
  • Create something- a drawing, a clay figure, write down what’s bothering you, anything- and destroy it.
  • Call a crisis help line. 
  • Befrienders.org is away to find helplines by country
  • Go to Blahtherapy.com
  • Hold an ice cube in your hand or your mouth
  • Rub ice on the place you used to cut
  • Clap hard
  • Snap a rubber band
  • Draw on yourself in marker
  • Blast music
  • Pop bubble wrap
  • Take a bath
  • Count to ten. Get louder with every number.
  • Braid something
  • Cry

…But there’s more!

Here are some links:
Teenhelp

Sirius Project

HelpGuide

YouthinBC

146 Things to Do

Need a distraction?

Disney and Marvel Movies

Studio Ghibli Movies

MOVIES AND TV SHOWS

Remember; Momma would rather you safe and happy. Momma loves you. You are worth it. Everyone is. 

 Momma is so, so proud.

fairysharkmother

Anonymous asked:

I just got my period and it's 2 days early so I didn't realise and I don't have any thing on me at all! I have terrible cramps and it's very heavy, but I'm at my Dad's house and my parents don't speak so I can't get into contact with my mum for another 2 days! What should I tell Dad so I can go to the shops without him, and what should I use to stop blood going everywhere and the cramps in the mean time? Thanks Sea Family!

fairysharkmother answered:

Aroooooo!

(Hello fair anonymous human!

Sea bear has had a similar experience before, at a dinner party. This is what Sea Bear did:

  • They went to the bathroom immediately and cleaned up most of the blood. They couldn’t change their underwear, but Sea Bear advises you to do so if the pair you are wearing is very messy.
  • Sea bear then made a makeshift pad with a lot of folded up toilet paper and some florist’s tape off a flower arrangement in the bathroom, and Sea bear suggests you do the same minus the florist’s tape. use actual tape if you have it, and if not, wrap the toilet paper multiple times around the middle of your underwear. Act as if you are wrapping a mummy.
  • Dispose of anything bloody save for undergarments, you can clean those later on.
  • Take advil or any pain medication available for cramps/pain!

Sea Bear suggests you tell your father that you need to go down t the shops to get something you forgot to bring that wasn’t important but still necessary, and then go.

Best wishes!)

natured

Anonymous asked:

everyone at school is calling me a prude. This really popular boy ( he could be austin mahones twin) actually has a thing for me and invited me over to his house while his parents were away and i turned him down. I am 16, I don't want to have sex. Bust nasty rumors are being spread about me saying my " area" smells and thats why I won't do it. What do i do?

natured answered:

Next person you hear saying something negative towards you about this situation be like ” Look, unless you’re going to be in bed with me - when I’m ready to have sex and who I choose to be with, is and will never be any of your goddamn business. Furthermore, the fact that you are investing so much time talking about  my intimate life/ my private parts really creeps me the fuck out. Call me a prude all you want, we’re in high school, I’m not obligated to open my legs for anyone. But, as you continuously spread this bullshit around campus laughing I want you to remember that if you had any semblance of a life to begin with, you wouldn’t have the time to worry about what I do with mine.” 

and even if you don’t actually say that to someone’s face, just keep it in your own mind.These people are acting pathetic.  Sex is a personal thing, it doesn’t matter who in their ” godly” presence wants to get in your pants, if you’re not ready, that’s that. 

backshelfpoet

Anonymous asked:

These people told me I should lose a couple of pounds (60 pounds to be exact) for boys to like me and if I want to wear pretty clothing and it's made me really scared to eat.

backshelfpoet answered:

[pulls out megaphone]

F.U.C.K. T.H.E.M.

LISTEN HERE, YOU STUNNING BABE. YOU BY NO MEANS SHOULD CHANGE YOUR BODY TO “MAKE” BOYS LIKE YOU. ANY BOY WHO WOULD BASE HIS AFFECTIONS ENTIRELY ON YOUR APPEARANCE IS A BOY WHO DOES NOT DESERVE YOU. ANY PERSON WHO BELIEVES YOUR BODY IS THERE FOR BOYS TO LIKE IS AN ASSHOLE. YOUR BODY IS THE VESSEL FOR YOUR SOUL, AND YOU SHOULD DO WHATEVER THE FUCK YOU WANT WITH IT. WEAR CUTE DRESSES AND DYE YOUR HAIR BRIGHT PINK AND GET THIRTY THOUSAND PIERCINGS AND LOVE YOUR BODY AS IT DESERVES TO BE LOVED. IT IS THE CONTAINER FOR ALL THE GALAXIES YOU HOLD AND YOU MUST FEED IT AND CARE FOR IT AND CLOTHE IT AND DISREGARD EVERY FUCKNUT WHO TELLS YOU OTHERWISE.

YOU ARE MADE UP OF CELESTIAL LIGHT AND YOU SHOULD NOT BE AFRAID.

[smashes megaphone and exits stage left]

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